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GODS PLAN FOR MARRIAGE
God is the founder and initiator of marriage and still cares for homes. Devil hates homes and always seeks to destroy it. Below are God’s continuous plans for marriage.

1. Marriage is made to be for two persons alone.
2. Marriage is made to be permanent which shall not be broken at will.
3. What God has joined together not bodies authorized to break it.
4. It is for people of like faith, like hope and people of like destiny.
5. It ends at death because it is ever lasting covenant.
6. Marriage is a covenant of love and faithfulness coupled with respect to God’s word.
7. It is only legal and scriptural means to have children.

 

FOUR (4) STAGES OF MARITAL LIFE
There are four stages of marital life which every couple and all intending couples should know. Below are the basic four stages in marital process.

1. THE FORM STAGE

The form state in marriage is the period of marriage engagement, courtship or the very period of marriage formation. This period is also extended to the first year of the wedding or the first after joining. This period is full of love, sweet fellowship, pitting and is also the nice period of learning each other. It is called the honeymoon period and time of formation.

1. THE STORM STAGE

This is the period of marital testing, period of tougher education, period of debate, learning, knowing each other and period of arguments. This is the period of initial crisis that is as a result of learning each other, knowing each other, knowing each other and understanding issues of marriage. Every married couple passes through this stage. It is a period of storm and initial crisis at home. The crisis or storm at this stage is not evil crisis and not caused by demons, but natural because it is the only route and process to know each other. It is the crisis that leads to family building, understanding, love and trust at home after it.

1. NORM STAGE

This is the period when the storm is over, when the newly couple have known each other, understood each other and properly cleave to each other. This is the period when the marriage becomes sweet, though, prone to other dangers and attacks. The family fellowship and love are now growing and the couple perhaps is at second, third, or even at the fourth year of marriage relationship. Here peace and understanding have started growing while the shape of things are visible, perhaps one or two children are born and issues that generate harmony started coming into the family, that is why it is called the norm – normal (stage).

1. PERFORM STAGE

The perform is the last stage in marital journey. It is the sweet, most peaceful, the best and the most harmonious stage in marriage. This is when family income perhaps is increased and when unity, harmony, peace, love, understanding and forgiveness have overtaken the family. It is when the family vision, goals, plans, focus, management and pursuit become one. This is when interaction, reconciliation, closeness and united efforts become real. It is when ideas, finance and family programs become one. It is when value or regard is accorded to each other. This when the husband and wife can plan together to achieve their goals successfully as one body. This is the only period when the family life can perform actively to achieve why God called family one body and one flesh.

CURE TO  BROKEN HOUSES
All affected  couples, couples to be or all singles who desire to be coupled later are invited to special family programs of Rev Prof Ononuju. Please check what your case is and call.

1. Is your own family restoration, healing or deliverance?
2. Are your family or marriage in fire?
3. Have you divorced your partner and needs reconciliation.
4. Are you planning to marry or searching on whom to marry?

Whatever your marital case may be call these phones +234 8107843029, +234 8088857694.

FAMILY CRISIS DELIVERANCE
Here are issues to follow in order to be free from family crisis and to have deliverance or protection in demon caused family crisis.

ADVICE TO ALL SINGLES AND WOULD BE COUPLES

• Pray very well and know the will of God before entering into marriage relationship.
• Make sure you are marrying whom you love and whom you can cherish or bear his or her own burden.
• Make sure you allow Holy ghost to lead you, in order to make the right choice in marriage.
• Remember, the period of courtship is the period of prayers and devotion to God.
  
  

ADVICE TO COUPLES AND OLD MARRIAGES

1. Dedicate your family to God and make sure you have an active family altar.
2. Be obedient to the word of God and to the whispering of the Holy spirit.
3. Build your family according to God’s pattern and in truth also.
4. Be faithful in all your marital dealing in order to attract God’s peace and blessings.
5. Invite Jesus in all your marital transactions.
6. Cleave to and living with your partner in order to get God’s miracles
7. Abide in God’s principles of marriage in order to live in God’s promises for marriage.

 

DEMONS ACTIVITIES AT HOMES

Many homes, including those of some of the church goers are being controlled, ruled, led and ruined by forces of darkness, either known or unknown to the victims. Most of the family problems today which are attributed to bad characters or sinful behaviours are the activities of demons in the families. Devil hates families and started very early to fight its existence Gen 3:1-20. The family is God’s channel of spreading His laws and godly principles Gen 6:1-8, 6:8-22, Gen 11:27-32, Gen 12:1-20. The home also is the devils base to destroy and to fight the moral principles and godly relationship in man. Home is devils field to hinder God’s plan for the society, thus, homes become devil’s targets of attacks.

HOW THE DEMONS CREEP INTO FAMILIES
There are many ways the demons creep into families to destroy and to attack the families. Below are some of the ways through which the devil can creep into careless families.

1. When the prayer force of the family is weak.
2. Through lust of flesh and adulterous activities.
3. By keeping stolen properties in the family house
4. Through infant initiation and occult practices
5. Through paternal or maternal connections and sins
6. Through bad family foundation of each of the partners or both of them.
7. By curses inherited from family background or from the marital connection.
8. Through ungodly rituals and ungodly practices
9. Through eating or drinking evil afflicted foods or drinks, either in burials or during ceremonies.
10. By unknown or known association with a demonic
11. By family quarrelings and through a cursing each other.
12. By living in a demonic house, occult house or ritualistic building
13. Through wrong religion or fetish religion and practices.
14. Through dreams and prophecies.
15. By demonic seduction and evil transference
16. By wrong prayers and wrong fastings
17. By accepting bad prayers and bad prophecies from occult pastors and evil ministers.
18. Through sexual intercourse with a demonic
19. Through an ignorant usage of occult powder, occult cream, occult pomade or occult property.
20. Through seductive appearances, sexual or immoral suggestive dressings or attires.
21. Demons can enter families through wrong money at home or wrong child gotten by incestuous relationship and through wrong confession or wrong ambitions of the couple.

 

HOW TO DETECT DEVIL’S PRESENCE IN THE FAMILY
Many couples do not know when the devils are in charge of their family activities or when the demons are controlling their family affairs and actions. Below are how to detect demonic presence and actions in the families or homes.

1. Frequent sicknesses of the family members especially when that is periodic.
2. Frequent quarrelling, disagreements or fighting that are caused by little thing or nothing.
3. Abrupt poverty, hardship or frequent liquidation of the family business and source of income.
4. Disunity, hatred and enmity between husband and wife that at times last for days, weeks or months.
5. Death of children with or without strong traces of the sickness that killed them.
6. Divorce or family separation that occurred which its strong source cannot be traced.
7. Divorce or family separation that occurred and later brought regret to both partners.
8. Unfriendly relationship between husband and wife that affected their children and other relations.
9. Unnecessary losses, failures and troubles at homes.
10. Evil dreams of wedding or marrying another partner.
11. Evil dreams of giving births to babies or having sex in dreams.
12. Having the same evil or bad experiences with your mother, father or with other closer relatives of yours.
13. Failing where others are succeeding and weeping where others are rejoicing due to bad conditions.
14. Family confusion, crisis and family disorganization
15. Disinterest in family sex and rejection of cordial relationship
16. Departure of the first love and reigning of strange action.
17. Sexual desire and sexual drive to be with another person but no sexual desire to meet with your partner.
18. Incestuous desire among the family members.
19. Pocket with holes, and frequent lavicious spending at home.
20. Frequent discomfort with your partner and senses of uneasiness to stay with your partner.
21. Distrust among the couple and fear each other at home.
22. Seeing snakes, lions, mad people or dead relations in dreams frequently.
23. Frequent missing of domestic items or house property at home.
24. Hatred to each other’s voice and crisis prone environment.
25. Living in occult man’s house or being a tenant to diabolic person.
26. Living within the environment of spiritism or within the area of mermaid worship or near mortuary.
27. Usage of protective rings charms or other property of the demons.

 

STEPS TO EJECT DEMONS OUT OF YOUR HOME
The Bible is not silent towards how to eject demons out of our homes if his presence is now detected. The follow principles should be followed in order to eject demons out of the victims family or home.

1. Repentance and confession are necessities to tell the unwanted friend or neighbor to go out of the home.
2. The husband and wife should make necessary confession, restitution and reconciliation to each other.
3. Staging of two, three or four days fasting and prayers with strongest aim of stopping devils further invasion at home.
4. Inviting a nearby deliverance and sincere gospel minister or come straight or call on Rev Prof Emma Ononuju for counseling and deliverance prayers.
5. Throwing away and burning every strange property, ill gotten property or sinful acquired items in the house.
6. Stop all bad advisers who visit your home only to ignite fire between you and your partner.
7. Stop all sinful and deceitful prayer houses whose prophecies and ministries aim at bringing troubles in your home.
8. Cleave to God and be serious with God, with the Bible and with christian fellowship.
9. Be prayerful, be spiritual, be holy and live righteously every day to avoid devil’s second attack.
10. Learn the strength and weaknesses of your partner and always say “sorry” when you are at fault.
11. Avoid heart provoking words and don’t go back to any forgotten issues because they devils ladder to climb into your family again.
12. Begin to do those things which you stopped doing to your partner because of such family disagreement.

 

If you have any problem in all the taught in Rev Prof Emma Ononuju’s family counseling and broken family restoration, call write or visit Rev Prof Ononuju in any of the stipulated means of contact at the end of this program.

 




THE WILL OF GOD IN MARRIAGE
The will of God in marriage is the issue every Christian should know, pursue and capture. It is a necessary issue in marriage and the fundamental doctrine in matrimonialogy. The will of God is the basic truth in the stability of every marriage, still it is the most debatable point in marriage hence others believe that we find our wives while others believe that God gives us our wives.  “And the lord God said, it is not good that the man should be alone, I will make him a help mate for him, and the Lord caused a deep sleep to fall upon Adam and he slept and He took one of his ribs and closed up the flesh instead thereof, and the rib which the Lord God had taken from manmade he a woman and brought her unto the man”. Gen. 2:18, 21, 22. This is where marriage started from the plan of God and according to God’s choice. Marriage is the first institution on earth. God started it God ordained it and God owns it. Marriage is the union of a husband and wife. It is not man and woman affair but husband and wife affair which resulted to oneness. “And Adam said, This is now bone of my bones, and flesh of my flesh”. Gen 2:23. Marriage is the greatest relationship on earth and also the greatest institution on earth. Marriage is for mature man and the mature woman. It is not a business of boys and girls. It is a divine programme meant for adults who have reached the age of parenting others. It is a programme of a mature man who is alone and ready to seek the will of God and to find a wife. “ He that findeth a wife, findeth a good thing and obtaineth favour from the Lord”. Prov. 18:22.

The issue of choosing a wife by ourselves and God given us his choice has been a big debate judging from Adam’s experience. The truth about Adam’s case is that Adam needed a wife closer to him but there was no woman on earth, thus God initiated a step of giving him a wife (See Gen 2:20-25). There are issues in marriage that signify the help of God without which God is not there. The help of God in marriage as these stated below must magnified, seen or observed before we enter into marriage or while we are in marriage process.




 

WHAT THE WILL OF GOD IN CHRISTIAN MARRIAGE IS

1. Both would be couple must be Christians of one faith, one conviction, one confession and one hope. Bible did not support the marriage between believers and unbelievers. The first will of God in marriage is that they must be Christian.
2. There must be unshakable and persuasive love from both of them. This love may start the marital journey or emerges at the middle of their engagement, but there must be a steady and unshakeable love among them.
3. There should be a cleaving heart resulting to selfless desire for each and total surrenderness of will and wishes to each other.
4. Another evidence of God’s will in marriage is that there should be a solid agreement between two of them resulting to a spiritual covenant done by the Holy Spirit.
5. There should be Holy Ghost conviction of God’s will in any divine programme among them. Which includes guiding people in their marriage proposals.
6. One of the greatest evidence of God’s will in marriage is short sightedness of the person to see the weakness, blamishness, ugly condition or problems of the proposed partner irrespective of what others see in him or her, but love covers such weaknesses.
7. The bold manifestation of the proposed partners beauty, handsomeness and kindness is another sign of God’s will, hence the proposed partner does not see, nor know the proposed wife or husband to be ugly, but only see beauty or handsomeness.
8. God’s will in marriage can be revealed in dreams, visions, trances, through Godly prophecies, through preaching, teaching God’s words or by reading the scripture. God is not limited in one system of revelation.
9. God’s will in marriage can also be reveled through positive prayers, Holy Ghost conviction, inner heart witnessing, or through strong sign from God.
10. The will of God can at times cause sleeplessness, restlessness, peacelessness or unnecessary anxiety between the two persons.

 

1. WHAT THE WILL OF GOD IS NOT
2. The will of God is not pre-marital sex
3. The will of God is not lust or carnal ambition.
4. The will of God is not secret ungodly engagement.
5. The will of God is not the choice of people.
6. The will of God in marriage is not public opinion.
7. The will of God is not people’s best or people’s support.
8. The will of God is not the family’s idea or family’s best.

 

1. WHAT HINDERS GOD’S WILL IN MARRIAGE
2. Ungodly advice and public opinions
3. Fear of tomorrow and obedience to parents instead of God and His word.
4. Poor knowledge of the truth and spiritual weakness.
5. Sinful commitment and wrong engagement.
6. Pre-marital sex and diabolic activities in marriage.
7. Impatience and hurriedness to wait upon God.
8. Disobedience to the silent voices of God.
   
1. MISTAKES PEOPLE MAKE BEFORE MARRIAGE
2. Hasty and casual prayers before marriage.
3. Seeking for beauty, riches, education or family background before marriage.
4. Considering physical more than spiritual before decision of whom to marry.
5. Marry person without the same faith and but one with contrary conviction.
6. Marrying money, motor, beauty, profession, property or family background instead of the person who is a helpmate or coverage.
7. Marrying through people recommendation instead of the person convinced and directed by God and His word.
8. Marrying by people’s persuasion, directives and by peoples leadership without God.

 

Pray well, consider issues and seek the face of GOD, don’t enter marriage in haste, remember you will not marry twice.

Don’t marry because the person is too close to you, nor marry because you pity him or her, remember, marriage is not a game of pity but a game of divine love.

Avoid long engagement in marriage and never accept sex before joinging, remember, 95% of long engagements ended up in disappointments while 98% sex before joining ended up in crisis, disappointments and failure at last.

Abortion while in marital engagement is a sign of future disengagement; therefore avoid any proposed partner who supports abortion while in secret engagement with you.


1. WHAT HINDERS SOME LADIES MARRIAGES

Marriage of some spinsters and even some bachelors are hindered due to some issues they often neglect. The under listed issues have hindered the marriages of many ladies and have even made some of them to remain unmarred. Listed below are the causes of long spinsterhood and why many ladies never marry till date:

1. Bad behavior, foolishness and pride in public.
2. Talkativeness, harlotry and negative self exposure.
3. Frequent appearances in clubs, public cinema and night clubs that destroy their future.
4. Rough life, social blame, negative fame and slanderous words from others.
5. Evil marks, negative presentations and disrespect.
6. Demonic oppression, demonic affliction and influence.
7. Bad family foundation, evil covenants and ancestral cults.
8. Curses, unseen evil altars and demonic bondages.
9. Demonic marriage, bad demonic bondage.
10. Bad family history and bad parental activities
11. Incest and abominable life or self deceit.
12. Dream bondage, slaveries and evil experiences
13. Ancestral and generational curses in the land
14. Mermaid spirits and demonic marriages.
    
    
1. WHAT HAPPENS WHEN GOD IS NOT IN LEAD

When God is not in lead of you any marriage from the beginning, the family shall be crowded with crisis, distrust, bitterness, disunity, hatred, fighting, disagreement, sickness, anxiety, failures, troubles and all forms of unwanted experiences at home.


1. HOW TO CHOOSE A LIFE PARTNER
2. Seek counseling from spiritual men of God
3. Pray for the will of God seriously
4. Have a spiritual marital mentor
5. Do not look on faces but tell God to bring the wife or husband as He did to Adam and Eve
6. Listen to what the Holy Ghost may tell you which may come through revelations, by magnifying a lady’s beauty before you or by directing you to one lady or to one man.
7. Give God condition and watch out how He shall meet such condition concerning your marriage.
8. Meet a serious and sincere man of God for a special prayer on that, this is very important if there are hindrances in your marriage.

 

1. SEVEN (7) LAWS BEFORE MARRIAGE
2. Do not entice each other with gifts because this may lead to wrong choice and can block the prayers to God.
3. Do not enter into long and secret engagement because this may break your prestige before each other and can also lead to premarital sex and through that, destroy your future or break your joy.
4. Avoid pre-marital sex because it must surely kill your family trust, reliance and your family unity in future.
5. Do not marry any person because of self pity, neither because of sympathy for him or her, nor because of help, any of these shall later become your greatest enemy in your family.
6. Do not marry the choice of many if such one is not your choice, if you do, this must surely lead you to divorce in future.
7. Do not marry through charms and diabolic means because these have their limited times to expire and the worst hatred, fighting or divorce shall be the end.
8. Discover the spiritual background of the person you intend to marry, these will include all discoveries whether the person is a roughian, whether the person had married before and still have a living partner elsewhere and the picture image of his or her family. These discoveries shall run in line with your prayers and shall reveal the will of God for you.
1. SEVEN (7) THINGS YOU MUST KNOW ABOUT MARRIAGE
2. Marriage is not a contract but a great covenant that lasts till death.
3. There should be no divorce after marriage, and if this devilishly occurred, there should be no other marriage. Second marriage or bigamy is not allowed when the first partner is alive.
4. There should be no extra marital sex (adultery) after joining at the altar or elsewhere, and all that do this, break eternal covenant.
5. Polygamy is not allowed, no matter how wicked and foolish the wife maybe. It is only one husband, one wife and never a man with two wives.
6. Marriage is the union of two good forgivers, the union of two great lovers, the union of two big bones, the union of two wonderful persons that become one, that need no more separation till death.
7. Marriage is the greatest relationship on earth that has no other substitute.
8. Every married person is bound by the law of his or her marriage till death, therefore, marriage as a moving car has no reverse gear.

DELIVERANCE PROCEDURE IN FAMILY CRISIS

1. Discover what your problem is and what hinders your marriage and deal with it.
2. Search for a genuine man of God and a true deliverance minister for proper deliverance.
3. Be ready to change, to confess, ready to make all necessary restitutions if you need deliverance.
4. If after all effort, no success please call on +234 8056614554, +234 8139088958. For comprehensive prayers and total deliverance.
5. Visit El Emancipation ministry on Thursdays by 10am till 3pm for proper deliverance or call the phone numbers above.

Pride, high mindedness, higher esteem of self and over rejection of marriages may hinder your marriage and may above God’s will for you, therefore be more careful here.

Late marriage is not evil but remember the beauty and shinning period of every woman is between her ages of 18 and 28, therefore don’t joke with this period, while man’s shinning stage and his own age of handsomeness is between his ages of 25 and 35, don’t miss this period.

After the shinning periods of man and woman, the class that would marry such one may depart and another class may set in for the same marriage, therefore be more careful for your shinning periods.

 

IN SEARCH OF FAMILY PEACE?
Those in search of family peace, family reconciliation, family harmony, family healing, family love or in search of restoration of family glory and stability should not kill themselves, nor lose any hope of betterment, but should believe in God of all restoration and God of great healing. Remember, all who need the promises of God must abide by the principles of God and as many as need the harvest from God must sow in God, while salvation shall never come without repentance. Remember, that whatever one sows the same shall the one reap. Gal 6:7. God wants you to repent wherever you failed in connection with your family crisis and marriage matters and now call upon Him for total restoration and miraculous family healing today. You can receive your expected miracles of family healing today. You can call, write or visit Rev Prof Emma Ononuju for your family related cases and see your deliverance and family restoration as God will use him to bless you.

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• REV PROF EMMA ONONUJU’S ECCLESIASTICAL PROFILE

  • Rev Prof Emma Ononuju is an international preacher who has travelled many countries with the gospel.
  • Rev Prof Emma Ononuju is an approved academic, a scholar and a great theologian of our generation.
  • Rev Prof Emma Ononuju is a great marriage counselor and great helper of broken homes.
  • Rev Prof Emma Ononuju is a prolific writer who has over four books to his credit.
  • Rev Prof Emma Ononuju is among the notable deliverance ministers in Africa.
  • Rev Prof Emma Ononuju’s ministries are followed with miracles, signs and wonders.
  • Rev Prof Emma Ononuju is church growth analyst and soul winning strategist in Nigeria.
  • Rev Prof Emma Ononuju is a church planter, mission builder and notable church administrator.
  • Rev Prof Emma Onouju is the founder of many gospel ministries in Nigeria which are presently flourishing.
  • Rev Prof Emma Ononuju is a historian, a theologian, an anthropologist and a great religions thinker.
  • Rev Prof Emma Ononuju is a great Bible teacher, a notable expositor of Bible mysteries in Africa.
  • Rev Prof Emma Ononuju is great preacher whose preaching ethics aims at salvation of sinners and the sanctification of the believers.
  • Rev Prof Emma Ononuju is the initiator, founder and the builder of Prof Emma Ononuju’s academic and theological library which is now a great help to gospel ministers in Aba, Abia State.
  • Rev Prof Emma Ononuju has the gifts of healing, deliverance and of signs and wonders.
  • Rev Prof Emma Ononuju is the first to introduce preaching practice among the student and the first to make it course in Abia State Nigeria.
  • Rev Prof Emma Ononuju is the epitome of the gospel he is preaching with great emphasis on holiness.
  • Rev Prof Emma Ononuju is the husband of one wife whose name is DR Alice Zuriel Ononuju.
  • Rev Prof Emma Ononuju has been a gospel minister for over thirty two years before the year 2013.
  • Rev Prof Emma ononuju is an inter-denominational preacher who is needed by many churches in Africa.
  • Rev. Prof Emma Ononuju has served in many organs and departments in gospel ministry Nigeria and beyond.
  • Rev Prof Emma Ononuju is the first African preacher to initiate African indegneous courses in theological colleges to suit the African gospel ministers and their ministries.
  • Rev Prof Emma Ononuju  is the founder and the initiator of the school of African studies in theological colleges.
  • Rev Prof Emma Ononuju is the first African preacher to initiate the school of lady ministers in Nigeria.
  • Rev Prof Emma Ononuju is among the elders of the gospel ministers in Abia State.
  • Rev Prof Emma Ononuju is among the great preachers in Nigeria who are internationally known.
  • Rev Prof Emma Ononuju is licensed gospel minister with extra ordinary unction.

 

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